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FLOW™ Formula

September 8, 2022
Want to figure out a way to make the honeymoon phase of a relationship last forever?
 Practicing sex and relationship therapy for 13 years, I've helped partners level-up their happiness to have better sex and improve all 8 forms of intimacy in their relationship using my FLOW™ Formula proce
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8 Forms of Intimacy

The world doesn’t have to be this dark, lonely place. You deserve to feel love, excitement and lust every day. Unless you know the process on how to access those 8 forms of intimacy (
psychological, physical, creative, intellectual, sexual, social, experiential, emotional
) it’s near impossible to achieve  on a sustainable level witho
ut couples counseling.
The FLOW™ Formula is a 90-day evidence-based, hybrid relationship coaching program that I developed  only  using the best techniques that were most effective with my clients over the last 13 years of my clinical practice as a top doctor and best therapist in my region. It teaches you how to think differently, do differently and because of those changes, you drastically  feel  differently

Is it effective?

It’s so effective because the 4 steps in this formula heal... the individual, the relationship, then the entire system. Here's a freebie from your favorite sex coach, follow these steps to magnify positive energy in your romantic partnership:
  1. Stop all mechanical love exchanges that are pure habit; there’s no energy circulating back and it's simply a waste of your finite resources. 
  2. All affection exchanges between partners should be... Purposeful with a positive intention behind the action
  3. Eliminate multitasking. 100% of your mental and emotional energy is given to the affection exchange

​Follow those 3 guidelines for intimacy exchanges for any of the 8 forms and your relationships will have profoundly more energy.


If that’s a little too abstract (most of us are concrete thinkers), give your energy a name, image, color, or way of moving. Make it more concrete. Whatever imagery you make for your energy expression, bring it up when you are exchanging energy in real-time with your partner imagining that it's flowing back-and-forth between all of you. The imagery WITH the behavior is going to make that exchange feel way more fulfilling in a tangible way.

Let's not complicate things. Relationship are nothing more, and nothing less than energy being exchanged. When things are going well, energy is in balance. When things aren’t going well, energy is out of balance. It's that simple.
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What will it do for me?

As recipient
of TOP Doctor award in 3 US states
I show my clients how to use and personalize my FLOW™ Formula to boost sex, release pain from past wounds and how to sustainably and intimately bond (fast). The common way people solve these problems of disconnect is though self-help books, years of long traditional therapy and self-proclaimed gurus who never follow through with actions.

But when you follow the steps in my FLOW™ Formula program, you  re-energize  your body and  synergize  your relationship in  90 days , with no more overwhelm, no more doing it completely on your own. Every minute that you’re unclear on what to focus on is costing you time, money and energy, all of which are your precious, finite resources.

Want to become your own intimacy expert and  embrace an energetic flow state with your partner? Great! Commit to going on this journey with me and finally getting the passion, joy and the sex in life that you have always wanted and genuinely deserve.
Intrigued about how this process can transform your life and want to learn more? Schedule your  free call   and we can talk about how to personalize the program to your specific needs. 



P.S.    Want to find our your energy type in relationships?! Take the FREE Quiz today!

Dr. Stephanie P. Bathurst, Ph.d, lcmft, ckct, cplc

Board Certified Clinical Sexologist
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Life Coach

Integrative Medicine Specialist for Mental Health

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