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A Day in the Retreat life


Swim into your partner without a care in the world. Sip a cup of slow-drip coffee or homemade lemonade as you and your partner enjoy daily farm-to-fork breakfast-in-bed (or beach). Spread your toes in the sand while you exchange re-commitment letters and re-attune to each other’s magnetism with the help of our Yin & Yang sound baths.


This completely private  retreat is specially crafted with daily excursions and transformational therapy workshops that are guaranteed to replenish your romantic energy and revitalize the self. Our ocean-view property in the Sunset Hills of Haleiwa, Hawaii embodies serenity, privacy, and beauty while we “do the work” of releasing past pain moments. Just a 4 minute drive down the mountain to the famous Pipeline beaches, embrace the Aloha Spirit as we transform your world.


Are you Feeling?


  • Like good roommates more than you are romantic partners?
  • Stuck in HOW to increase intimacy and passion in your marriage?
  • Need to spice things up in your long-term relationship?
  • Feeling unsexy after having kids and it's impacting your relationship?


Welcome the Passion Back


All workshops are uniquely built using evidence-based therapy models and led by your very own Relationship and Sex Therapist, Dr. Stephanie Bathurst. Dr. Bathurst remains on-premises during the entire retreat experience to answer all of your questions, personalize your daily sessions, and support every romantic need to make this a truly unforgettable rite of passage for your partnership.


Look forward to romantic, candle-lit dinners at sunset, playfulness and adventure during surf or SUP lessons, become part of the hive at your private bee tour and honey tasting, or be in awe at the Hawaiian botanical gardens and waterfall during this once-in-a-lifetime retreat. Are you and your partner(s) ready for immersive healing and profound reconnection?


This is your time to enjoy a slice of romantic Heaven (or romantic Haven). Our mission is to craft for you a connection of depth through activities centered on all 8 forms of intimacy that you never knew were possible: Physical, Emotional, Sexual, Experiential, Social, Psychological, Creative, and Intellectual Intimacy.


Build your own intimacy experience by ending this growth experience with a sacred Recommitment Ceremony on a private beach with whales and turtles breaching around you. Bathe in the relaxing sounds of a Yin / Yang sound bowl healing as your partner’s love letters resonate into your soul.


Our Magic Promises to…

  • Secure your attachment
  • Practice intimacy-building techniques to take home
  • Sex positive (be ready to explore)


Create Strong Bonds

Learn HOW to create secure attachment bonds and amplify arousal within your partnership. The amount of healing and happiness that each retreat client reports here will astound you.


At 3 payments of $2,475 per partner, this all-inclusive relationship-transforming rite of passage IS possible.


Your Retreat Includes:

A free virtual orientation session with Dr. Bathurst to personalize every detail, a personal chauffeur around the island and airport transfers with Leis, 2 therapeutic workshops each day of the week with Dr. Bathurst (a total of 7), 3 Farm-to-Fork meals per day crafted by our private chef, ocean-view accommodations on a 1 acre fruit farm, therapeutic resources and gifts to bring home, and 5 truly magical date nights specially crafted to your idea of adventure.


  • A 100% private house for the entire retreat week with all-inclusive amenities and 1-1 therapy sessions is an investment with guaranteed ROI
  • We accept HSA funds and offer payment plans through Paypal and Affirm!
  • Flight costs, visas and trip insurance are the only amenities excluded in this package


Return home with profound relational and emotional intelligence in a way that you didn’t know your relationship needed, but without the energy exhaustion that traditional therapy models offer.


Bonus!

Every couple receives a digital photo album filled with memories of your retreat


Secure your dates before bookings fill up! Contact our retreat manager, Alex Russo, via email or phone to secure your deposit today. We can't wait to work together.


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Head over to our sample Retreat Agenda for just some of the personalized intimacy-building therapy workshops we craft for you. Intrigued? Keep reading below to learn even more and visit our retreats page.  Ready to schedule a Discovery Call today for a free 1-1 call with Dr. Bathurst about your relationship needs and what a perfect retreat would include? We cannot wait to support your romantic transformation.


* Payment Plans accepted. Please email us to pay in installments (to accommodate CC or HSA withdrawal limits) *


Luxury Venues


We secure the very best accommodations for our guests. With 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms and a full kitchen and living room, you have plenty of room to relax during your stay! From welcome baskets filled with local goodies, and holistic inclusions, like a Joov red light and essential oils, we ensure this feels like the home you’ve always wanted. Sink into a cozy king mattress decorated with fresh-cut hibiscus and soak in purple sunset skies over the ocean on your private garden patio.

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Food for the Soul


After a delightful day of sound baths, tantric breath work, and  snuggles in your hammock, a full-course breakfast, lunch and dinner are delivered to you with the option of enjoying your intimate connection in your suite or heading to the beach for a picnic (picnic basket and blanket included). Picked right from the lush trees on-property, your private chef excels in lavish, aromatic dishes filled with nutrient-dense raw foods and natural aphrodisiacs like saffron, vanilla bean, beets, avocado, asparagus, and pomegranate. Our VIP services happily create food adaptations to meet your specific food needs while accommodating dietary requests. 

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